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Do You and Your Mate Seem to Speak Different Languages? June 21, 2013

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Dr. Debi Smith, psychologist and expert on the Psychology of Men and Romance, explains how men and women use language differently. The same words don’t hold the same meaning for both genders, which adds to communication problems … and a feeling of disconnection. In this video, Dr. Debi talks about the importance of understanding your partner’s bottom-line question.

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Tell Us What You Think June 17, 2013

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Dr Debi Smith
Love is simple, but not always easy.
Learn to live out the Romance of Ephesians 5 while discovering new, creative solutions to old problems through …

(a) our hope in Christ,
(b) a deeper understanding of one another,
(c) learning to assess where we are, and
(d) the practical and immediate application of what you learn.

Thursday ~ Friday ~ Saturday: Each session in this upbeat Program builds upon the previous, with experiential exercises that you will actually enjoy because they’re fun … and very romantic!

YOUR OPINION COUNTS!
This is a Brand New Program! So after completing the survey,
you will be invited to a series of optional preview seminars
… and the opportunity to be part of our Pilot Study!
Give Us Your Input > complete the survey
… and Get Priority Notification When Registration Opens

Happy Father’s Day! June 16, 2013

Posted by occhristiancounseling in attachment, Dr. Debi Smith.
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A huge heartfelt thanks to our men for all they do to provide for their families and keep them safe, and for being their guiding light throughout life. You’re the best! May God bless you and strengthen you.

Men Are Complicated June 12, 2013

Posted by occhristiancounseling in classes, Dr. Debi Smith, Events, research, understanding men, understanding women.
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Most of us have been taught to believe that women are complicated. As a Couples Therapist, Dr. Debi has found that women are actually very simple, but they speak in a “Secret Code” that makes them hard for men to understand. Men are complicated because they don’t speak … that is, they rarely talk about what they’re thinking and feeling or what they need from their women. Dr. Debi is on a mission to clear up the confusion!

Watch “Women Are Simple: Part 1” and “Women Are Simple: Part 2.”

Men and Romance June 11, 2013

Posted by occhristiancounseling in classes, Dr. Debi Smith, Events, understanding men, understanding women.
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Join teleconferenceDr. Debi online (or on the phone) each Wednesday @ lunch for a chance to learn about the Psychology of Traditional Men and Relationships during our Worldwide Teleconferences.

For current schedule and details on how to get connected, visit Dr. Debi’s Event Page now!

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“Why Won’t He Talk to Me?”
written by Dr. Debi Smith

  • Does he usually withdraw and refuse to face an issue you need to talk about?
  • Is he unresponsive in dealing with issues when you bring them up?
  • Do feel like you have to push him to get him talk about anything of importance?
  • Does he have problems being open about things?
  • Does he frequently misunderstand what you’re trying to say?
  • Have you tried everything you can think of to make your relationship work?
  • Do you feel like giving up?

If you’re tired of trying to figure him out,
and you’re ready to fix your communication problems,
then you absolutely need to know this vital information!

This 30-day course will be sent to you via email, with a new lesson every 2 days with information about …

  1. Six Couple Communication Problems and How to Avoid Them
  2. The Four Styles of Intimate Communication
  3. How and When to Get Him Talking
  4. How to Win Him Over to Your Way of Thinking
  5. False Assumptions That Are Keeping Your Relationship Stuck

Don’t wait any longer to figure him out.
Register for this FREE eCourse now.

Do you wonder what he’s thinking? June 6, 2013

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Despite what most women believe, men do spend a lot of time thinking about their relationships.

We think they don’t for one simple reason: They almost never tell us what they’re thinking!

Find out what kinds of things your man might be thinking about during this free webinar with Dr. Debi Smith, expert in the Psychology of Men and Romance.

Register Now!

How to Get What You Want June 3, 2013

Posted by occhristiancounseling in classes, Dr. Debi Smith, marriage, Q & A.
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Many couples have a hard time getting their emotional needs met and their relational longings fulfilled. But it need not be that way!

Both men and women can fall into the trap of believing that their partner simply doesn’t care. Consequently, they go round and round in a negative cycle of interactions.

In reality, romantic partners really want each other to be happy. However, they often don’t realize …

(a) what the other person needs or
(b) how much a positive response would mean.

Listen to the Webinar Replay Here!

Learn more now!

Pink Elephants June 1, 2013

Posted by occhristiancounseling in attachment, classes, Dr. Debi Smith, Events, marriage, research, sexuality, stonewalling, understanding men, understanding women.
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pink_elephant-smAs a Couple’s Psychologist, I read a lot of information about relationships.

One thing that amazes me about most approaches to helping couples is how much attention therapists give to what goes wrong.

Shouldn’t we be focusing on how to make things go right?

It’s like we’re telling people not to think about Pink Elephants, then spending all our time talking about Pink Elephants! In doing so, many well-intentioned counselors actually help couples maintain the self-fulfilling prophecy: We bring about what we think about! I guess it helps some therapists stay in business.

Not me! I’m determined to help men and women recapture the romance they once enjoyed and now long for. All this has inspired me to develop an New 3-day Workshop … one with an upbeat, yet realistic biblical foundation. Watch for it this fall!