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Why Won’t He Talk to Me? May 2, 2016

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email-course-art-wwhttmfrontWhen something’s wrong, it’s often the woman who notices it and wants to talk about it – to figure out what’s wrong and fix the problem. Here’s a frequent complaint from our Relationship Survey:

We have problems agreeing on the way in which we will deal with problems. I want to deal with them when they come up, and he wants to think about it on his own for a long time and hope the problem goes away before we talk about it.

Does anything about that sound familiar to you?

Have you’ve ever wondered, “Why won’t he talk to me?”
Maybe you’ve tried everything you can think of.
But don’t give up! Learn what to do now!

In this FREE online course by Dr. Debi Smith, based on professional research in the Psychology of Men and Romance, you will learn all about …

  • Communication Problems – how to avoid them
  • Communication Styles – how to understand him
  • Communication Strategies – how to get him talking

Register now!

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Why won’t he listen to me? March 5, 2014

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Men and women use language differently, in part because they have different life experiences and different goals in life.

In this Women’s Workshop, you will learn some of the most common mistakes women make when they try to communicate with the men they love … and more effective ways to get your point across.

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Saturday, March 22
12:00-3:00 pm

Orange Coast Psych Assoc
27401 Los Altos, Suite 275
Mission Viejo, CA
$20/person payable at the door

R.S.V.P. mail@drdebismith.com or 800.705.6223

Mad About Men? March 3, 2014

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audio_dr_debiIf the Men in Your Life …

… make you mad – whether it’s the angry, crazy, or happy kind – listen in on this lively and informative workshop for women!

Listen to “Mad About Men: Part 1”
by Dr. Debi Smith
Recorded on Saturday, March 1, 2014

Marriage Insurance January 9, 2014

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premarital_counselingI’ve heard it said that there’s a reason why bridegrooms are all dressed alike … Because it doesn’t really matter what man you plug in to the role. It’s only the bride that counts. The man just isn’t that important.

You may chuckle about that, but it feels true to many men.

A woman is frequently surprised if she hears that her man feels like he’s simply not that important to her … that he doesn’t believe he’s very high on her list of priorities. In fact, he might feel like he’s not even on her list! He may believe that he’s nothing more than a paycheck to her … something to be used up by her. And he doesn’t want sex in exchange for his paycheck. He honestly wants to feel emotionally connected to her, but he just can’t figure out how to make it happen.

There are so many ways men try to connect with us … to ask us to dance with them.

And it requires a tremendous amount of courage to ask … especially if they have been shut down a lot. However, each time a man gets a “yes,” he’s encouraged to ask again … and again … and again …

Would you like to know a few essential ways that you can say “yes” to the men in your life?

Excerpt From:
Dance With Me: A Hopeful Romantic Interprets Ephesians 5
by Dr. Debi Smith

Why Do Men Stonewall? December 26, 2013

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men_stonewallMeet Dr. Debi on Facebook tonight (12/26/2013) to find out!

Men Are Not From Mars! November 2, 2013

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marsNo.

Men Are Not From Mars.
Women Are Not From Venus.

Men Don’t Have Waffle Brains.
And Women’s Brains Are Not Made of Spaghetti.

We’re from the Same Planet!
And we were created by the same All-Wise God.

But we are created to be different. And we have
different life purposes and experiences.

Want to know more? Here it is!

November 7th: Free Talk & Book Signing! October 29, 2013

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free talk book signing

27401 Los Altos, Suite 275, Mission Viejo, California

Join Dr. Debi for this FREE Talk & Booksigning!
You’ll be entertained and enlightened.
So bring your Spouse … a Friend … or your Spouse AND a Friend. 🙂

p.s. If you’re not married, you’ll still learn a lot about the opposite sex
… and what you can reasonably expect in a romantic relationship.

Register here, and we’ll see you there!

Creative Fundraising While Empowering Couples October 20, 2013

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fundraiserNew! Fundraising Opportunity

Are you looking for a Great Fundraiser for your Church, Organization, or Group?

Why not host an Ephesians 5 Sweethearts Dance … like for Christmas, New Year’s, or Valentines?

We’ll supply Dance Instruction, Recorded Music, and some Old-Fashioned Entertainment … with Lots of Fun and Laughter tossed in for good measure. It’s an Amazing Experience for Couples of All Ages and Stages!

You supply the location, Audio/Visual Equipment, and refreshments.
You sell tickets (name your price), and you keep all the money!

We will have books, CDs, and Coaching Packages for sale, and your group will get 10% of our sales. How cool is that?

If you’d like to know more, write to us at mail@drdebismith.com or leave a message at 800.705.6223.

More Reasons Why Men Stonewall July 30, 2013

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Why Do Men Stonewall? (and what you can do about it) from Dr. Debi Smith

Tell Us What You Think June 17, 2013

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Dr Debi Smith
Love is simple, but not always easy.
Learn to live out the Romance of Ephesians 5 while discovering new, creative solutions to old problems through …

(a) our hope in Christ,
(b) a deeper understanding of one another,
(c) learning to assess where we are, and
(d) the practical and immediate application of what you learn.

Thursday ~ Friday ~ Saturday: Each session in this upbeat Program builds upon the previous, with experiential exercises that you will actually enjoy because they’re fun … and very romantic!

YOUR OPINION COUNTS!
This is a Brand New Program! So after completing the survey,
you will be invited to a series of optional preview seminars
… and the opportunity to be part of our Pilot Study!
Give Us Your Input > complete the survey
… and Get Priority Notification When Registration Opens