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Most Women Hurt the Men They Love … May 3, 2013

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Dr. Debi Smith

Dr. Debi Smith

… when it comes to better understanding the opposite sex, it’s often the case that men feel defeated before they start and women barely see a need to start. ~ G. Morris

All of us learned that men are simple, and women are complicated. However, Dr. Debi blows this theory out of the water with findings from research and practical application. ~ Steph P.

The truth is that men are more complicated than women. They’re more sensitive, too!

But they’re sensitive about different things than women are. And they rarely tell you when you’ve done something hurtful.

Most women hurt the men they love, and never know it.

The only thing they notice is when the man begins to withdraw from the relationship. When they ask the man “What’s wrong?” they usually get the response “Nothing.”

Learn the Truth about Men and Romance in Dr. Debi’s book Dance With Me: a hopeful romantic interprets Ephesians 5. ONLINE NOW

Women: What You Need to Know April 30, 2013

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Join Dr. Debi for “Lunch Break Wednesday: Informational Session + Q & A” @ noon (PDT), May 1, 2013, when our topic will be “Understanding Women.” Get connected here.

Preview > Women Are Simple: Part 1

Dance of Romance April 29, 2013

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Fred and Dr. Debi taught the Dance With Me Team the “*Congress of Vienna Waltz” at Mariners Church in Irvine, California. Very romantic!

Women follow with trust and respect … April 24, 2013

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Fred Judkins, Dr. Debi Smith, and the Dance With Me Team demonstrate Victorian-style dance at Mariners Church in Irvine, CA. Vintage dance is stylish, elegant, easy to learn, fun … and very, very romantic.

Welcome to a Totally New Kind of Couples Workshop!
Submit to one another out of reverence for Christ. ~ Ephesians 5:21

This passage applies to the body of believers in fellowship with one another, so it naturally applies to husbands and wives as well. However, just how husbands and wives are to submit to one another is easily misunderstood in our current culture.

That’s what Dance With Me is all about — learning what submission looks like in the 21st Century. In this workshop couples learn to pay attention to one another’s needs and to be responsive to one another in light of his/her unique design and purpose.

Music by Spare Parts, used by permission, CD “Returning Heroes,” song “La Cachucha, available for purchase @ Spare Parts

New! Worldwide Teleconference April 15, 2013

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teleconferenceLast Saturday, we launched our New Community Outreach Program with Prelude to a Dance: Secrets of Attraction via the Internet @ StartMeeting.com. Now you can join in on our discussions from anywhere in the World!

For our current schedule and details on how to get connected, visit Dr. Debi’s Page now!

In less than 24 hours … April 12, 2013

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Secrets of Attraction? Huh?

You might think this info is for women who want to attract a man. And it is.

But mostly, this information is for those of us who “have” a man … and want to make sure our romance thrives!

Women attract men. That’s no secret.

However, most of us are clueless about what it is that attracts an emotionally and spiritually healthy man … and keeps him interested for a lifetime.

We erroneously believe it’s all about our physical appearance.

In less that 24 hours, I’ll be meeting with women (and men) from across the continent. Won’t you join us?

Prelude to a Dance: Secrets of Attraction
Saturday, April 13, 10:30 am – 12:00 pm

F*r*ee Tele-Conference
US Toll Number: 530-881-1212
Meeting ID: 939-502-393

Instructions:

  1. About 5 minutes before the scheduled date and time, dial into the conference line using the toll number listed above.
  2. When prompted, enter the meeting ID, followed by the pound key.
  3. To join the online meeting, follow the meeting link listed above, then press “Join.”
  4. On the next page, complete your name and email address, then press “Submit.”
  5. The system will guide you through the process to participate in the online meeting.

For easier access* to the call at the scheduled time, you might want to download the optional software in advance > launch wizard to download meeting dashboard.

I look forward to meeting you very soon!

Warmly, Dr. Debi

* For 24/7 technical issues, please contact StartMeeting at (800) 644-9070.

Prelude to a Dance: Secrets of Attraction April 9, 2013

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Saturday, April 13

10:30 am – 12:00 pm

Find out what qualities are most attractive to emotionally and spiritually healthy men, as well as the challenges women often encounter in maintaining these wonderful qualities.

Free Conference Call via StartMeeting.com

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Meet Dr. Debi This Saturday! April 4, 2013

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All New! Webinars
from Dr. Debi Smith

When it comes to the Dance of Romance, the Music Matters. Why? Because Music sets the emotional tone of your relationship.

This series of webinars is for Hopeful Romantic women who have questions about men. We’ll talk about the challenges of relationships … as well as unravel the Marvelous Mystery of Men!

The Music Matters
Saturday, April 6
10:30 am – 12:00 pm (PDT)
Pre-register: Free Preview!

Meet me on the web for this free preview of my new webinar series for women … all about men! We’ll have a chance to get to know one another and find out what questions we have about men.

  • Why won’t he talk to me?
  • Why does he do that?
  • Why won’t he commit?

“See” you there!

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Hoping for a Proposal? March 28, 2013

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If only we still knew how to “romance” like this!

If you are a single woman – or if you are already dating someone – and you live in Southern California, you are invited to join in on our newest Workshop Series, April 14th through June 30th, in Newport Beach.

Click here for details now!

Fan the Flames of Love! February 5, 2013

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valentine-175x180It’s time to fan the flames of love! This year, Valentines Day falls on a Thursday. That means you have the opportunity to SCORE TWICE this year.

Here’s how …

Give your Sweetie a romantic card and/or flowers on Thursday. Enclose a handwritten note telling her how much you love her and how important your relationship is to you. Then tell her that you really want to invest in your marriage. So you’ve arranged a babysitter for Saturday … and that you’re treating her to a Day of Romance and Fun @ Mariners Church … and you’re taking her Dancing* that night!

Then get ready to enjoy the Best Valentines Weekend Ever!

Cost: only $125/couple
NOTE: This limited-time offer expires @ 6:00 am on Monday, February 11, so don’t delay!