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Lessons in Husband Improvement November 5, 2014

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husband_improvementWould you like lessons in “Husband Improvement”?

Join Dr. Debi on Nov 6 in Newport Beach.

This will be a learning-and-prayer group, so be sure to bring a new journal or notebook with you!

RSVP here!

Fun Facts About Guys September 24, 2014

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Lee Kersten Productions Presents

Simple Secrets to Being a Fabulous Follow

1. Learn how guys think
2. Help any man be a better Lead
3. Have every man look forward to dancing with YOU!

Invite your Friends for an afternoon of
Fun Facts about Guys
Guest Speaker: Dr. Debi Smith
Psychologist, Author, and Expert on the Psych of Men!

Sunday, October 5 4-6pm
It’s FREE … and for Women Only!

♬ Memories Dinner & Dancing ♬
12901 Philadelphia, Whittier
(enter side door on Comstock)

3 Things You Can Do When the Man You Love Gets Off Track September 21, 2014

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I’m always telling women not to give a man unsolicited advice. They get that. They really do.

And then they say, “Ya, but ….”

Consequently, one of the most Frequently Asked Questions I get is what to do when a guy is doing something you don’t think he should be doing … or not doing something you think he should. Here’s my answer!

Girls are nothing but trouble. August 24, 2014

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Are you in need of a Paradigm Shift? August 21, 2014

Posted by occhristiancounseling in Dr. Debi Smith, marriage, understanding men, understanding women.
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You were designed to enjoy a Lifelong Love. However, your success in Romance depends on your Paradigm.
A paradigm is a distinct concept or thought pattern.

If you’re not enjoying your mate, it may be a sign that you need to make a Paradigm Shift. That is, what you believe to be true about him or her may be incorrect.

How do you know?

Well, if what you’re doing isn’t bringing joy and peace to you and yours, maybe it’s your paradigm that’s incorrect …

… not your mate.

Now that’s an interesting proposition!

Make the Shift today! Order your copy of Ephesians 5 Romance: the Truth about Love by Dr. Debi Smith

The Abdication of Adam July 29, 2014

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Where Are You, Adam?

We know that Eve wasn’t the only one who messed everything up right there in the Garden.

Check out the rest of his story!
[The Abdication of Adam]

It’s Your Choice! July 17, 2014

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What’s your point of view today?

Are you struggling to overcome past hurts and regrets?

Or are you joyfully learning to walk in Newness of Life in Christ?

Your point of view means everything!

If you believe you must change your behavior … or your mate’s behavior … in order to enjoy Life and Love, you’ve got it all wrong!

We are not called to live with a focus on what anyone has done in the past. But that’s what we often do! We spin our wheels trying to make up for our sin … or the sins of others. Or getting someone else to make up for it all. How crazy is that?

The Truth is – because of what Jesus did for us on the Cross … He died for our sins that we might be reconclied to God – we get to choose our point of view …

… and that’s Good News!

We get to choose Life in the Spirit, which means we get to learn how to see Men, Women, and Marriage from God’s point of view. Through the comfort and guidance of the Holy Spirit, we have the choice to co-create a Life that’s Better Than Eden!

How cool is that?

Bottom Line: Living Life in the Spirit means our point of view changes from past-centered to Jesus-centered.

And He always has a more excellent way of looking at things!

This day I call the heavens and the earth as witnesses against you that I have set before you life and death, blessings and curses. Now choose life, so that you and your children may live and that you may love the Lord your God, listen to his voice, and hold fast to him.

~ Deuteronomy 30:19-20a

Read more about the Psychology of Men and Romance in my newest book!

An Ephesians 5 Romance July 3, 2014

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Your love story matters.

 

It matters because it belongs to you.  It’s what you know and where you live.

 

Mostly, it matters to God.

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View Table of Contents now!

Why won’t he listen to me? March 5, 2014

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Men and women use language differently, in part because they have different life experiences and different goals in life.

In this Women’s Workshop, you will learn some of the most common mistakes women make when they try to communicate with the men they love … and more effective ways to get your point across.

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Saturday, March 22
12:00-3:00 pm

Orange Coast Psych Assoc
27401 Los Altos, Suite 275
Mission Viejo, CA
$20/person payable at the door

R.S.V.P. mail@drdebismith.com or 800.705.6223

Mad About Men? March 3, 2014

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audio_dr_debiIf the Men in Your Life …

… make you mad – whether it’s the angry, crazy, or happy kind – listen in on this lively and informative workshop for women!

Listen to “Mad About Men: Part 1”
by Dr. Debi Smith
Recorded on Saturday, March 1, 2014