Why Won’t He Talk to Me? May 2, 2016
Posted by occhristiancounseling in classes, Dr. Debi Smith, research, stonewalling, understanding men.Tags: communication, relationships, silent treatment, stonewall
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When something’s wrong, it’s often the woman who notices it and wants to talk about it – to figure out what’s wrong and fix the problem. Here’s a frequent complaint from our Relationship Survey:
We have problems agreeing on the way in which we will deal with problems. I want to deal with them when they come up, and he wants to think about it on his own for a long time and hope the problem goes away before we talk about it.
Does anything about that sound familiar to you?
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More Reasons Why Men Stonewall July 30, 2013
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A Woman’s Perspective June 22, 2009
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He’s so distant, and you don’t understand why. Most of the time, he doesn’t even respond to you, and trying to communicate with him is like talking to a brick wall.
When you ask him what’s wrong, he mumbles “nothing” … or just ignores you.
If you press him to talk to you, he gets angry.
The only time he pays attention to you is when he wants something from you: it’s usually sex. But you’re not interested anymore.
You feel ignored, rejected, unlovable, alone.
You used to be so close to each other. You’ve tried absolutely everything you can think of to get close again, but nothing’s working. You wonder if he even loves you anymore.
You feel like giving up.
What is his perspective?
